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I was born this Way (1)

I have just done a test about my personality and found out I'm ..
What does introvert means, just give me a feeling that Im inferior or not confidence or like some kind of disease . So I continue to read, it said introverted does not have to mean shy. Shyness is a form of anxiety characterized by inhibited behaviour. It also implies a fear of social judgement that can be crippling. Shy people actively seek to avoid social situation, even ones they might want to take part in, because they may be inhibited by fear. Introvert shun social situation, they simply want to be alone.

Introverted people arent bothered by social situation, they prefer not to engage while extroverts draw energy from mingling with large groups of people yet introvert people just find it taxing.

In today society, its taxing enough to be a introvert people, keeping quiet is always a disadvantage in this society that feel like the quality of your work has less value that the volume of your voice.

The unstated norm discount the hidden benefit of the introverted temperament like introvert people may be able to fit all their friends in a phone booth, but those relationship tends to be deep and rewarding. introverts are more cautious and deliberate than extroverts, but that means they tend to think things through more thoroughly, which means they can often make smarter decision. Introverts are better at listening - which , after all,  is easier to do if you are not talking - and that in turn make them a business leader, especially if their employees feel empowered to act on their own initiative. And simply by virtue of their ability to sit still n focus, introvert find it easier to spend long period in solitary work which turns out to be the best way to come up with a fresh idea and master a skill.

To be continued


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